Most other dating sites make you choose from thousands of photos and descriptions. You won't find this hit-and-miss approach at Cybersuitors. Our exclusive easy-to-use CQ Test actually calculates how compatible other members are with you. It's fun... and it works. Here's what to do: 1. Become a member of Cybersuitors. Start by joining as a Non-paying Member. It's free and you'll be able to post your profile for other members to see, search for compatible partners and send smiles to other members. The only restriction is that Non-paying Members aren't able to send or reply to emails. To ensure you don't miss out, we recommend upgrading to Full Membership in return for a reasonable monthly subscription. You can upgrade at any time by going to the membership options area. Joining is a straightforward process; just give us a few details and choose a password, then we'll equip you with your 'Cybername' - your first name or chosen pen name followed by a four digit number, a combination which is unique to you. > Benefits and prices 2. Tell us what makes you tick. We'll ask you a number of searching questions about yourself, then use your answers to automatically produce your personal Cyberfile, a page on the Cybersuitors web site devoted to you and you alone. This is where people who are interested in you can find out more about you and your interests. (And of course it's also the way in which you'll find out about other Cybersuitors members.) 3. Send us your most flattering self portrait. Since we've discovered that descriptions which include members' photos attract almost ten times as many replies as those without, we go out of our way to encourage you to submit yours. We also do all we can to make it easy for you, because we know lots of people don't have access to a scanner. So you can just put a photograph of yourself in an envelope and mail it to us. We'll do the rest. Alternatively if you've already got a digital photo you can upload it directly from your computer or email it to us. 4. Reveal yourself in the confidential compatibility test. Dr Glenn Wilson's CQ Test will explore the 'real you' through its 25 questions. Honesty is absolutely the best policy here: it's a genuinely scientific test which forms the basis on which we'll calculate your compatibility with other people. If you hope to meet someone online with whom you really click, you (and they) must tell it like it really is. 5. Log-in and start looking for someone special. Your Cybername and password enable you to log-in to Cybersuitors. When you've done so you'll be free to use the Cybersorter, our custom search engine which gives you the power to select other members by whatever criteria you choose: you could find non-smoking women between 25 and 30, who are over 5 feet tall; or Jewish men over 35, who are over 5 feet 6 inches tall, for example. 6. Getting in contact, and being contacted. Once the Cybersorter has found someone you'd like to contact, it's time to use Cybermail - our exclusive secure email system. For security reasons you are only able to contact other members using Cybermail - received and sent from the Cybersuitors web site. If you're familiar with other web-based email services like Hotmail and Yahoo, you'll find Cybermail simple to use. Even if you've not used anything like this before, you'll find we've designed it to be as straightforward as possible so that nothing comes between you and your enjoyment of meeting people through Cybersuitors.