What members are saying about Cybersuitors Dear Caroline, I would like to take this opportunity to comment on Cybersuitors comprehensive personality matching. My fiance and I "met" on Cybersuitors the first of this year. We knew that the distance of 2,330 miles separating us would present a challenge, but after considerable correspondence, we could not deny the "connection". We decided to meet the following month, proving beyond our expectations an undeniable match in many ways. We truly feel that the closeness, the compatibility, and the love we share is a once in a lifetime occurrence. Thank you for bringing us together.. Terri Hi, thanks to Cybersuitors I have met a fantastic lady who I am now seeing on a regular basis & the relationship is going absolutely great.Could youplease remove me from your "active" list (if you have such a list). Manythanks ! Phil Dear Caroline, I've tried Match.com, Yahoo Personals, Cupid and a host of others. Been looking for over two years. Tried your site as a last resort as I had pretty much given up. Took the test on your site. Saw a lady where your site said our CQ rating was 128 and sent her a smile as I THOUGHT, since she lived on the opposite side of the US, she probably wouldn't be interested. WOW!!! Am I ever glad I fired that arrow. We are so compatible that it is down right scary. We have fallen in love with each other and our relationship grows with leaps and bounds every day.We both feel like we've known each other forever. She is also as stunned as I am with all of this. Our minds are so connected it's scary. My dear sister-in-law says I've found my soulmate as has some of my close friends. Funny, I've always thought that was a bunch of bunk, well, until now. Well, lastnight and this morning, we declared our love for each other. Your site is the best! Thank You So Much! Dennis Surprisingly (to me) I have met someone (he wrote to me) through Cybersuitors who is just lovely. Although we live at opposite ends of the country, we have started a 'relationship' and are really excited about it! So, thanks. Cybersuitors has given my skeptical sentiments a hearty thwack! Noddy1007 Hi Caroline, We will be moving in together in February and we plan to get married and have kids. Sheesh - what have you done?!!! :) We marvel almost every day that we managed to meet each other. In fact we started to find the level of similarity between us extremely spooky. We still do. We are so suited to one another we started to feel like we were part of a sci-fi movie - perfect match by computer etc etc. I give the same spiel to everyone who asks me - and everyone asks. I tell them its the perfect system (at least for people in my situation - which is similar to most of my friends). I'm 30 years old, a decent person, and with no realistic possibility of meeting a like-minded person in the near future: Most of my friends are already in relationships (I was in a long term one before we split up and I tried cybersuitors), I have a full-time job (not like the old teenage years) I don't want to hang around clubs at my age, have a drunken conversation with somebody based on looks, then find out they're completely wrong for me. Cybersuitors lets you meet people with whom, at the very least, you'll be able to have a fun night out with. The cybersuitors thing is just perfect in so many ways (as I have been telling all my single friends that are interested). You have a big "filter" initially so that a profoundly religious person who wants a dozen children doesn't start chatting to a raving atheist who hates kids. A fact some people might not find out till a bit into a relationship. Then you get to know the person without the physical biases that haunt alot of people - looks. The major thing that bothers people who I've tried to convince to try it is the fear of a psychopath stalker at the other end. I tell them a) this can happen in real life too, b) you are never obliged to meet up with anyone unless you are absolutely comfortable, c) you genuinely *do* get a feel for someone by their E-mails. OK there ya have it - my official advert for cybersuitors. Oh P.S. the thing that allows you to determine how far away someone is from you "as the crow flies" is superb. I basically initially chose a bunch of people with high scores AND who were relatively close to me. Once again thanks, my life is totally and utterly changed by this and everything is fantastic. I hope it works as well for other people. I know all this may sound a bit over the top, but it really is true (7 months true at least) and it makes the ordinary method of meeting people seem like a completely insane gamble :) Lawrence Lawrence I'm sure you get many an e-mail from all sorts of crazy people, but...I'm afraid I need to cancel my membership, not because you provide a bad service, but because you've provided me with far too much of a good one! During my free trial period I had one e-mail, that one person has turned out to be one of the best matched people I have ever met...she's fantastic, beautiful, funny, intelligent...etc, infact we are being so cheesy, we are making people very sick on a very regular basis! She lives miles away, but who knows what might happen...so thank you! Hope things work out well with the site, and you go from strength to strength. David I'm not sure how you manage the site and whether you are aware I've not logged on for a while - and I have to tell you I won't be. The reason is that I am now in an exclusive relationship with one of the first people I contacted through Cybersuitors - with a CQ of 135 if I remember rightly. We are both stunned at the way our relationship has formed over recent weeks to the point where we are planning way into the future but it is proof to me that your matching system really works. Because of the jobs we both do we do not want any publicity, but we are truly grateful to Cybersuitors for bringing us together. Many thanks to you all. Qwerty I am writing to ask you to withdraw my name from your list, not because I do not want to belong. But you will be pleased to hear that Batman and I emailed each other from July 10th from when I first enrolled. I think this was when you first went on line. We met one month later, we have been seeing each other ever since and plan to get married next year when I have sold my home and we intend buying one together. Your web site has certainly worked for us. Having been divorced 16years and not found anyone with the same interests as myself, it was so refreshing to have found somone with so many interests that we both shared. From the moment we met we both knew that we would get along. Thank you very much. Amazon In the short time I was with Cybersuitors, I received quite a few responses (more once I put my photo in). Very quickly I found the man of my dreams, which otherwise would never have happened because he's on the other side of the world! I am very happy & would recommend Cybersuitors to anyone looking for love. :o) Thanks again, Yvonne Can I just say that I have tried about half a dozen internet introduction agencies over the last couple of months and yours is one of only two I would recommend to a friend. Well done for setting up the CQ test - everyone who has written to me has had at least enough in common with me not to be a disaster. I think yours is an admirable service, and I thank you and wish you every possible success. GOOD LUCK x Clover In a way I was excited when my divorce came though. I'd been married for seven years and the prospect of meeting someone new, who I'd be better-matched with, gave me a lot to look forward to I thought. But life wasn't as simple as I'd hoped it would be. As a married woman I seemed to see a constant procession of fanciable men pass before me, but once I was 'available' they seemed to evaporate. To cut a long story short, I signed up to become one of Cybersuitors founder members and I have to say the experience has been a really fantastic one. I've 'met' several men online and almost without exception I've found we were well matched. Must be the 'psycho-thingy' stuff. I went on to meet up with one of the guys in real life, and B and I get on really well. Jane As a newly single man I quickly became disillusioned with the existing 'Personals' scene. I see myself as a pretty genuine kind of guy but it seems like the whole dating set-up is geared up to men and women with one thing on their mind - unfortunately not the same thing. The women seem pretty genuine but the men - well, they're enough to give the male half of our species a bad name. When I came across Cybersuitors I have to admit I thought it was going to just be more of the same thing but I was proved very wrong indeed. Their psychological profiling is what makes them different, and I've been matched with some genuinely nice women. I can't recommend Cybersuitors highly enough. Peter